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The Truth About Long Term Relationships

Why do Women Cheat?

Web sites with information about Divorce, custody rights, etc. It is time we recognize & protect our GREAT Civil Right to be parents to our own children. There ought to be a "significant barrier" the system has to cross before they can interfere with our family life.

Canada Court Watch Program
A program of the National Association for Public and Private Accountability (N.A.P.P.A.) "Protecting the public's interest in the administration of Justice"

It's Tuesday morning and the news is "Mother of triplets arrested in torture death of two sons." You shake your head and wonder what this world is coming to? How can a mother kill her children?

According to the American Dept. of Justice Study (DOJ) "Murder in Families," mothers account for 55% of all fatal child abuse (fathers 8%, stepmothers/girlfriends for 9%, stepfathers/boyfriends 10%) even when taking into account custody arrangements. In thinking about this, one has to wonder who else these mothers were abusive toward?

Studies on Domestic Violence Against Women, often show that the women can be just as violent as the men. One DOJ study, "Prevalence, Incidence, and Consequences of Violence Against Women: Findings from the National Violence Against Women Survey" shows that 39% of the victims are men, though you have to go to page 7 of this 16-page study to learn that.

Some 190 other studies ( place the figure even higher. In the case of Leonard Bass, father of the triplets, he was left with no place to take his children, so he had to leave them behind in the care of their mother, Mary Bass. And as most ones know in the Kansas City area, Mary Bass was convicted in October 2000 of the torture death of two of the triplets. The third has been left with lifetime scares and disabilities. When a person talks about women committing domestic assault on men, others will snicker, and wonder how a little woman can hurt a man. But, the fact is that it does happen. How it happens is simple. With today's hysteria about domestic violence by men, male victims are afraid to defend themselves, and with good reason. The simple act of grabbing a woman's arms, to prevent her from hitting or scratching him, is considered a domestic assault on her, for which he can be arrested.

Fathers4Equality consists of a large number of fathers, mothers, step-parents and grand-parents, who all share the core belief that sole-residence as a preferred model for post-separated families is harmful to children, and deprives decent non-custodial parents (usually fathers) of being a parent in the true sense of the word.

Levings Divorce Magazine

Stop Parental Alienation Syndrome
The March/April 2006 edition of the Journal of Parental Alienation is available as a free download. This issue contains several important
announcements including a new research study and information on Parental Alienation Awareness Day and a checklist for alienating behavior to see if you are at risk of becoming an alienated parent.

SPARC's goal is to ensure that children of divorce continue to have meaningful relationships with both parents, regardless of marital status. We advocate on behalf all non-custodial parents to ensure they get equitable treatment in court and continued access to their children. In addition, we work to promote gender equality in Divorce and Custody issues.

SPARC recognizes the value of fatherhood and supports the concept of true joint custody, where parents work together for the best interests of their children. When joint custody is not possible or workable, we often advocate for fathers as custodial parents. Statistics show that custodial fathers are the most likely to encourage a positive relationship between their children and the other parent and to raise happy, healthy children.

SPARC operates as a provider of information and support resources, and we provide our services without cost. The information and services available through SPARC can be used to great effect, but they will not help a parent "cheat" their way to custody. We work to promote fair and equitable treatment, not to give one parent or the other an unfair advantage.

United Families International (UFI) is a public charity devoted to maintaining and strengthening the family as the fundamental unit of society. By strengthening the family, the basic building block of society, communities, states and nations are strengthened. United Families International supports the following causes:

  • Family -– Respect for existing laws, political structures, religions and cultural norms that preserve the family
  • Marriage -– Marriage between man and woman, founded on chastity before marriage and fidelity in marriage
  • Life –- The sanctity of human life, including unborn children
  • Parents –- The right and obligation of parents to love, protect, provide for and teach their children
  • Compassion -– Compassion for the disadvantaged and distressed, including orphans and street children.

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